estella .
Wednesday, August 17, 2005
ROAR.
People's feelings may get hurt in the process.
today we played the funniest Bball match ever. it was almost like syaza versus stella. very exciting. i think i laughed more than i ran. =X haha. but i perspire/ glow alot. actually, i think i SWEAT loh! im like a guy! so smelly. wahahs. i have alot of male hormones la. ( i think)

on a more serious and perhaps angry note, i want to comment abt today's experience.
i really Hate it when people say bad things about my friends in front of me.
and its worse when these people are my friends. =(
Look, i know it's probably not possible for me to change your opinion of my fren,
but can try to put yourself in my shoes?
Not everything is about you you you and your opinion only what right.
all i said was that my friend was not as bad as you perceive him to be,
and all i asked for was NOT for you to change your attitude towards him just like that
*snaps fingers*,
but for you to please change the subject.
was that wrong?

also, have you ever considered how i feel?
Both parties involved are MY FRIENDS.
Don't expect me to just sit there and grin away while hearing someone badmouth my friend bah?
cause i cannot.
of course i would instinctively defend him what right. *frowns*
Because if one day, someone talks bad abt you, i would definitely speak up for you, regardless of whether you wanted me to do so or not.
what kind of friend would i be if i merely nodded along or pretended not to hear?
i would call myself a great big ____. (its really vulgar to be penned down i think)

by writing this chunk here i know im risking alot. including my friendship with tt person if he chances upon this blog. i am not writing all these to spite you. im just talking about this incident. It's more of "dui shi bu dui ren" really, cos i've experienced this more than once. so i really hope that you wont take it personally.

People's feelings may get hurt in the process.*




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